Couple’s Valentines Gift Guide from a Sex Therapist in MN

Valentines Gift Guide

Happy Fucking Valentine's Day and February everyone!! Sex therapist Jackie, blogging from Minneapolis, Minnesota. I hope you are all having a fabulous 2022! Let’s get down to some sexual self-care with this Valentine’s Day Gift Guide for Couples. In this blog, you’ll learn about sex toys couples can use together, the types of sexual lube I recommend, games, and additional sexual self-care tips! Please remember this, you can celebrate your partner or partners every day of the year, not just Valentine’s Day! You can always schedule sex and put that date on the calendar, just saying, from this sex therapist in Minneapolis experience, it works! ;) Let’s get started y’all!

Couples Valentines Day Gifts

Sometimes people may not even know that sex therapy in Minneapolis is a thing and that we focus on different types of sex toys in sessions. Sex therapists in Minneapolis also discuss the benefits of sex toys during sessions and give clients different tips on how to use them and practice safe sex with sex toys. Here’s your Valentine’s Day Gift Guide on Sex Toys from a Sex Therapist in Minneapolis below…

  1. 35pc Bed Restraint for Play Sex Bondage

    Oh hell yeah, it’s fucking playtime! This is a great starter set to play with to see if BDSM/Kink play is your jam or thing. This is a set that provides many items for you and your partner(s) to explore some playtime together.

  2. Vibrating Silicone Cock Ring

    Mhmm double the pleasure, double the cum! Ain’t nothing wrong with a vibrating cock ring! I recommend this one because of the shape, size, and it’s easy to use. The photo shows you how to, whereas other cock rings might be in shapes that feel like a fucking puzzle you’re trying to figure out on a penis. No thank you, this one’s it!

  3. Rechargeable Personal Massager 

    Isn’t wand amazing? Plus, if you have roommates or anyone sees it lying out you can call it a massager if ya wanna ;) This one is a beautiful shape, size, and has several speeds to help you get off. Be careful and start slow with this product because the speeds can get pretty intense!

  4. Bed Restraint for Play Sex Bondage

    It’s playtime, let’s go! I always recommend starting with a bed set that you can use for restraints with different styles for positions.

  5. Vibrating Remote & Toy for Panties

Umm yes like Katherine Hiegel in The Ugly Truth! Once you have a set of remote panties, you won’t wanna stop playing with them. Why not try a date night out and your significant other(s) or you wear them? No one else has to know, and it can be a great secret between you and your partner(s)!

6. The Second Type of Vibrating Remote for Panties

Just in case you wanted a second shape for an option, decide which is best for you or get both and give them all a test ride!

If you are looking at a sex toy for masturbation purposes, I would check out these different links here in my last blog, Valentines Gift Guide for Solo Sexual Self Care here!

Lubes and toy cleaner is another topic sex therapists in Minneapolis will discuss with their clients. Sex therapist Jackie from Minneapolis MN over here talks about sexual self-care a ton on my IG!! Lube and sex toy cleaner is a big part of sexual self-care because it prevents bacteria from building up on toys, experiencing pain without additional lube, and STI/STD prevention.


Here’s your Valentine’s Day Gift Guide on Sexual Lubricant and Cleaner from a Sex Therapist in Minneapolis below…

  1. Adam & Eve Personal Water Based Lubricant

    Some of the softest, nicest lubricant in the mother fucking game. Super underrated and super fucking worth it! Test this one out and let me know what you think!

  2. Adam & Eve Forbidden Anal

    The fact that this lube is out there is fucking baller and makes this sex therapist in Minneapolis mother fucking happy! Seriously, if you have not used an anal lubricant before, this is the one! It’s extremely different compared to the water-based personal lubricant. The anal lube is literally designed for anal play and because of that, it makes it easier for anal training. It’s a silky soft texture that provides a tingly sensation that’s gonna get ya hot for anal play. Buy this product and see for yourself!!

  3. Astroglide Liquid, Water Based Personal Lubricant

    Again, another fabulous, reliable option for a water-based lube! Astroglide has several other types of lubrication products and literally let’s ya slip it right in there. The title is in the name for a reason ;) Try it out!

  4. Sliquid Original H2O Lubricant, Sliquid Silver, Silk Hybrid, Naturals Sea, Pina Colada, Green Apple, Sliquid Sassy & MORE!!!!

    Cause who doesn’t love some sass?? Sliquid is a solid brand! All around they have different types of lubes, water-based, silicone, silk, and sass on sass on sass! Why not try them all and see which is the best gift for you? Check out the Essentials Pack of Sliquid Lubes if you want to #TREATYOSELF am I, right?

  5. Shibari Toy Cleaner

    Now, cleaning your sex toys is definitely important! This spray can help kill bacteria ASAP after use if you don’t wanna get up and out of bed to wash off immediately because you’re on an orgasmic cloud. This spray is unscented, works like a charm, and is nice to have extra precautions when cleaning your sex toys.

Other fun Sexual Self Care Products for your Valentine’s Day Gift Guide Could Include…

  1. Nipple Nibblers

    What a fun treat for some nipple play! This is a flavored nipple cream that's supposed to get you to help with arousal, enhance sensations, and get ya all tingly inside. Plan for that nip slip!

    2. Clit Sensitizer

    Ain’t nothing fresher than my clit, clit, clit! This product will get ya good and tingly for sure! I highly recommend it because it helps get the blood flowing and makes you feel all sorts of wild things in that clitoris! #goodvibrations

    3. Pure Instinct Pheromone-Infused Fragrance Oil

This is another way that we can focus on sexual self-care! Do an experiment, wear this when your partner(s) don’t know you have it, and see if it makes them wanna jump on top of you!

As a sex therapist in Minneapolis, I highly recommend checking out these different types of products. Got that Amazon Prime Membership? Then what are you fucking waiting for!!! Get them before Valentine’s Day this year! Be it if you are practicing solo sexual self-care this Valentine's day or week or month or a year, whatever you do you boo, this Valentine’s Gift Guide is for YOU!

Are you a Gamer? Then check out these Sexy Games below…

Talk, Flirt, Dare!

Sexy Dice Set!

Love Lingual: Card Game - Better Language for Better Love

Create Your Own Game with Your Own Rules! Because why the fuck not? There are so many games you may already have in your home, can you add intimate rules to them, sexual rules, dates to be planned, fantasies to be role-played, or whatever! Why the fuck not test it out and see how you like it!

I hope this information was helpful on solo sexual self-care, sexual self-care tips, and your valentine’s day gift guide from this sex therapist in Minneapolis, MN! To get more freebies and tips, sign up for my newsletter today and share it with others! I promise, I won’t spam your ass, I do promise those freebies, tips, and to get the tea on what’s happening in Shameless Therapy & Consulting Services, LLC!

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